A Point To Ponder

I read one of those provacative questions on a website that said " Is it better to be honest, or loyal?"

That is an interesting question, are the two mutually exclusive? Maybe they are. You could be a loyal friend and not want to be honest about some things like how an outfit looks, but can you keep a secret about something big and still be considered loyal?


I hate being lied to myself, as do most people I imagine. Where is the line between tact and a lie? How honest are you with the people in your life? I prefer honesty always, because what I do not know,or what I am left to imagine on my own is usually way worse than the actual facts.

So I guess if my spouse were cheating on me, or I was going to get fired, you know something big, I would want to know for sure. And I really do want to know if something looks good on me or not, but just don't be mean about it LOL. You can says something like, it is not my favorite thing on you, instead of OMG you aren't wearing THAT are you!? LOL